My three kids and I play a popular, family-friendly MMO together. This summer, I have payed particular attention to the way that they play and what they are learning through gaming. Here are some things that I've observed:
Seamus (8 years old) - Seamus does not need any reason to play a game. Somewhere I have a video of him playing chutes and ladders at age three against his blanky. He would take his turn and then pick up his blanky, wrap it around his hand, and make a move. He always played fairly, which meant that he fought hard for his wins. Blanky was no pushover. Fast-forward 6 years and my almost-9-year-old is a gaming machine. He loves games of all forms: playground pick-up games, board games, and video games. I love to watch Seamus play MMOs, because he is such a benevolent player. Need help defeating a boss? He's the one to call. Really want that new castle? He'll spot you the gold. Seamus will drop everything to help a friend in need. As I am typing this, I just heard him yell out, "Eva, need help?" That's my gaming boy.
Eva (10 years old) - Eva is not a typical gamer. She's a social being, a lover of music and dance. She scoffed at Seamus when he tried to convince her to play an MMO, and then finally gave in and fell in love with it. For my mathematically challenged daughter, I have enjoyed seeing how this game is helping her understand math practically. Yesterday, I overheard her in a deep discussion with her brother talking about probability and percentages when it comes to winning battles with certain attacks. She finally gets it (and doesn't even realize she's doing math).
Jireh (7 years old) - Jireh loves playing MMOs, because he gets to play with his siblings without feeling left behind. He can battle with the best of them. This year, we learned that Jireh is behind in his reading skills. He needs a little extra help as he gets stuck and frusterated, often giving up before he's really started. What I love about playing MMOs with Jireh is that he's reading without the frustration. Many of the quests have voice-over, but I've watched him tracking the words with the audio. He's playing the game and improving his reading skills at the same time.In conclusion, gaming is a worthwhile summer activity for my family because we get to spend time together enjoying challenges and rewards. The gained life skills are icing on the cake.
